Sunday, April 19, 2015

All I Needed to Know I Learned From Horses

         

    Most horse people will tell you that horses can teach you much more than just riding skills and animal care. The atmosphere, experiences and environment if the horse world is practically a breeding ground for life lessons. Here are some of the best (and sometimes hardest) lessons I have learned while pursuing my love of horses.


Try Again - Patience

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           Practice is a staple in horse riding because nothing will ever go the same way twice. You and your horse may gel one day and the next be on opposite ends of a the ring (in more ways than one). Trying again and being patient with yourself and your horse is essential to growth. In life, patience helps you get through rough days, deal with people that are on your nerves and achieve heights that others have given up on.

    Breathe - Stay Calm

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            The horse world can be extremely irritating and hectic. Horses stepping on our toes, running us over, horse show bustle and everything else can overwhelm and crush us if we do not stay calm. Especially before IHSA shows or riding a sassy horse I have learned that taking a deep breathe and saying a prayer helps me to refocus and remember my true goals. Apart from the barn, there are many things that can harry us as well. Because of the calming techniques i have learned from riding, I can breathe, pray and recalibrate my thinking faster in hectic situations so that the situation cannot control me.

      Getting Back On - Resilience

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            Everyone falls but not everyone gets back on. Whenever I fall off, my instructor always makes me get back on and work through my fears. If you know you can get up off of the ground and get back on a animal that is 10 times bigger than you and ride through it, it is easier to bounce back from a bad grade, bad news and other besetting events in life.

      Work First, Play Later - Responsibility

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           It is so easy to put your own wants and feelings before others and even your horse. But every good rider know that you must take care of your horse before you relax. Even in training horses you have to establish good ground work and drill the basics before you can trust your horse to play around. If you constantly put fun before work, no work will get done and the fun will quickly pass. Working on your horse, with your horse and for your horse teaches you to work hard and gives you more appreciation for the free time that follows.

      Hurry Up and Wait - Flexibility

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            You will hear the classic "hurry up and wait" to describe any horse show. Because of the massive amount of variables nothing will go exactly to plan. In order to stay calm and focused you have to be ready for everything and go with what the day brings. In life, there are few things that go according to our wishes. Flexibility gives us the shocks to keep going on the bumpy road of life.


      Pretty Mean Horse - Don't judge the outside

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          Sometimes, the prettiest horses have the sourest attitudes and the plainest ponies consistently place well. Though one can learn so much from those difficult equines, the steady horses are superheroes in a lesson program and in teaching the essential basics. Because one of our first senses that we perceive the world around us is our sight, it is difficult for us not to judge by first impressions. However, one cannot judge people or horses by their looks. Being open and ready to get to know others before labeling them will help you to get friends and influence people in a positive way. 

      Sit Back and Look Up - Staying grounded and positive

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          One of the most important lessons that I have learned in horse riding that applies so well in daily experiences in to sit back and look up. Sitting back puts your center of balance in your seat and heels making you balanced and in tune with your horse. Looking up gives you direction and clarity on what needs to be done. Sometimes, when the going gets tough, the best thing to do is sit back to ground yourself in what you believe, look up at your goals and hang on.

           So, just as I told my parents when I was convincing them to let me take horse riding lessons, I learned a lot of character traits and life lessons as I rode. Of course, I am still working on learning and understanding these lessons but the horse world has given me a jump start on them. What lessons have you learned in your experiences with horses? What lessons are you working on right now? Comment below and subscribe!

      Saturday, April 11, 2015

      Horse Movies: My Top Ten


              What horse lover does not love a good horse movie? Admittedly, some are cheesy and the riding is questionable at times but they fed our horse love as kids and bring us fond memories today. Anyways, I have thought and "researched" (aka watched to many horse movies) in order to bring you my top ten horse movies list.Though some are based on true stories and some are fictional, they still hold the wonder and majesty of the horse in the cinema.

      10. Second Chances

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                A cute story about a young girl, Sunny, who lost her father and some use of her legs in a car accident. After she and her mother move to a trailer park next to a ranch, Sunny befriends a "crazy" horse that also has an injured leg. Through trials, hardships, rivalries and more, Sunny makes a sacrificial decision that teaches all involved a lesson about winners.

      - One of the first horse movies I saw as a child, this one will always be a favorite.

      9. National Velvet 

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                Every girl dreams of loving the un-lovable horse and having said horse win a major competition bringing her glory and proving those that doubted her and the horse wrong. With Elizabeth Tailor as the lead it is hard to go wrong. The whimsical story is interesting and I always loved dreaming about riding in a big horse race.

       - As a review on IMDB said it "is such a wonderful little heart felt drama."

      8. Secretariat

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               Chronicling the story of race horse Secretariat from his humble beginnings to his glorious triple crown win, Secretariat is a lovely movie about his rise to stardom with a female owner, quirky trainer and other difficulties.

       - I was so excited when I heard Secretariat was coming out. I have always loved watching the power and beauty of horse racing and Secretariat was (controversially) one of the best race horses that has ever lived.

      7. The Man from Snowy River

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               The Man from Snowy river is a Australian epic about a young man's journey to manhood in the outback with horses and an independent woman. The dynamics between a ranch owner, his father and the girl create a touching story.

           - Horses, romance, independence, what else could one want from a movie?

      6. The Black Stallion

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               A young boy named Alec is stranded on an island where he befriends and tames a black Arabian that was also shipwrecked. After they return to the states a retired jockey help Alec and 'the black' train and win a race against some of the fastest horses in America.

          -The dialogue is sparse but the story is well fleshed out and and beautifully portrayed.

      5. Hidalgo

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              About a cowboy that is out of work and pretty much only has his horse, Hidalgo. They travel to Arabia in order to race in an endurance horse race across the dessert for a large cash prize. Though many doubt the paint's ability, Hidalgo and his owner prove to themselves and others of what they have to offer.

        - Adventurous as well as tender at times, Hidalgo is one of my favorites because of its diverse mix of story and action.

      4. Misty

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              Based on Margaret Henry's Misty of Chincoteague, this movie tells the true story of the historic pony penning day from the viewpoint of Paul and Maureen Beebe as they try to tame and love a wild horse named "the Phantom"and her filly Misty.

          - I loved the book Misty of Chincoteague and equally loved the movie. Though it doesn't exactly follow the book (what movie really does), it still inspired my dreams of one day attending pony penning day.

      3. Seabiscuit

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              One of the rougher movies on my list, Seabiscuit tells the story of an unlikely racehorse, handicapped jockey, and rookie owners overcoming many odds to win against the favorites. Set during the great depression, the movie explores many darker areas of racing as well as the glory.

        - Hmmm another racing movie? I'm sensing a pattern here. But, there are so many beautiful and true stories of horses that have been chronicled through film.

      2. War Horse

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              An epic that centralizes around a horse named Joey. From a plow horse to riding horse to war horse, Joey shows his versatility and heart. Through out the whole journey, Joey always has owners and human companions that love and care for him as he gives his best to them.

       - Ahhhh War Horse I love a movie that makes me sad and happy all in the same story while having beautiful scenery, music and arc.

      1. Black Beauty

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               Another story focusing on the life of a horse, Black Beauty goes through the hands of good masters, bad masters and many in between. In the end, Beauty makes his final home in a good place but not without the scars of his past. The book the movie is based on was written by Anna Sewell to raise awareness for cruelty to horses in 18th century England. 

        - The quintessential horse movie and the start of many people's (read mine) horse passion. Though not based on a true story, the book captured the hearts of many and the movie carries on the legacy.



               This is by no means an exhaustive or complete list. What are your favorite horse movies? I have not seen them all so I am always looking for more good equine flicks to add to my viewed list. Are there horse movies that are on your do not watch list? Tell me below in the comments!